Ahhhhhh questions. We love questions here at Bedroomial, because if you don't ask questions how do you ever learn anything? The answer is you don't, so if you have a question about anything sex or relationship related please send them our way at bedroomial(at)gmail.com with "I have a question" as your subject line and we will do our best to answer it quickly.
However...before you ask a question, PLEASE read through the questions already here first to make sure your question hasn't already been answered.
DD/lg
Polyamory
What is Polyamory? This by far is our most asked question, even when I was running bedroomial solo I got asked this question a lot.The basic definition of Polyamory is a relationship with multiple mutually consenting sexual partners. However, being polyamorous is not so much about sex as it is about loving more than just one person in a romantic way.
Is Polyamory the same thing as Swinging? Erm...to be honest, it is in some ways and in other ways it isn't. Polyamory involves being in love with more than one person in a romantic way. Swinging is the consensual swapping of partners for sex and love may or may not be involved. There are a lot of blurry lines when it comes to open relationships which is the category both Polyamory and Swinging fall under.
Franklin Veaux put together this great infographic that shows multiple types of open relationships and how they overlap. Hopefully it will aleviate some of the confusion.
DD/lg
What is DD/lg? DD/lg stands for Daddy Dom/little girl Daddy Dom/little girl and it is a type of power exchange within BDSM. A Daddy Dom tends to be a more nurturing, gentle, and less strict of a Dominant than other Dominant types. A little girl is a submissive who often identifies with an age younger than her chronological age and behaves like a child in specific situations or exhibits childlike characteristics without identifying with a specific age.
Does DD/lg have anything to do with Pedophilia? Absolutely not. Being a Daddy or a Little has nothing to do with having a sexual attraction to children. In a DD/lg relationship, calling someone daddy is no different than calling someone baby, or sweetie and the same goes when a daddy calls his little babygirl, kiddo, little one, etc. In our case, Chappy calls me babygirl, and I call him daddy but we only use these terms in the privacy of our own home because we know that many in public may raise an eyebrow if we use these terms publicly.
Also our DD/lg relationship has nothing to do with our sexual relationship. In the bedroom I am NOT in my Little headspace, I am in my adult headspace and Chappy's submissive.
What is Little space? Little space is a mindset in which an adult relaxes into a state of carefree, responsibility-free safety. An adult in little space may involve another adult referred to as a caregiver, and engage in activities viewed as childish.
When I'm in little space, I am between the ages of 3-6. I play with stuffed animals, color, watch disney movies, and suck on a pacifier and use a sippy cup when feeling I'm closer to 3. During this time Chappy is my caregiver, he cuddles with me, plays with me, and if I'm bratty I get disciplined usually with a spanking or time out.
